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"My Favorite Fins"

Aqua Shack owner/instructor/philosopher discusses his favorite fins past & present.

My Favorite Fins

by Capt. Jim Hinckley

Hi Y'all... Capt. Jim checkin' in...

In response to a question and a few answers posted in Aqua Shack Reasoning Room I figured it was time to do a little writing. I hate to admit it, but I gotta agree with Damon to a certain extent on this one (only kidding Damon. I don't really mind agreeing with ya). Marcus & Jason bring up good points too, which may or may not pertain to you.

I've been diving since 1973, let's see that'll be 31 years and well over 5000 dives this May, ... wow, I fee old! In that time, I've tried hundreds of fins as a diver, Divemaster, Instructor, boat Captain and Dive Center owner. I've also bought more than I care to think about in an attempt to find the perfect fin. Unfortunately, there is no ONE PERFECT FIN for ALL divers in all conditions doing all types of diving. So instead I've narrowed it down to a few of MY personal favorites for the types of diving I do. If you want the short answer as to what fin to buy, I'd say BUY 3 or 4 ! One long warm water full foot fin, one open heel long paddle fin for when you want to "crank", one open heel split fin for when you want to move without working too hard, and one open heel short stiff fin if you do wreck/cave diving.

First of all let me say Damon is correct in stating that there are "scientific", hydrodynamic and empirical results of design, thrust & efficiency (thrust to work ratios) tests and then there are "REAL WORLD" results! I tend to trust & believe in my and others real world opinions, keeping in mind a little of the "scientific" results of design & materials testing so I know the "reasons" the fins behave as they do.

Your "real world" results will vary greatly depending on many factors such as; size & stiffness of the blade, design of the blade & fin, your height & weight, your body shape, your leg strength, your kicking style, the other gear you're wearing (wetsuit, drysuit, no suit, amount of weight, etc.), your body position in the water as you swim (attitude: head/shoulders higher than, level with, or lower than your feet), the shape of your foot (effects foot pocket comfort), the type of diving you're doing (wreck/cave vs. open water), currents or how "fast" you want to move, your personal desires as to how hard you want to work that day (some days I want to "crank" others I want to chill out and relax), and probably many more I can't think of right now. Anyway, that ought to give you some idea why there are so many subjective "real world" opinions about what's best! What's my idea of best may suck for you!

With all that said, I've compiled a short list of my favorite fins of all time (some of which are not even sold any more) for various activities and climates.

Wreck/cave diving: Scubapro Jet Fins - Positives - Short & maneuverable, relatively stiff yet quite efficient. It still amazes me that they got it right way back in the 60's before CAD/CAM systems and hi-tec materials. They've changed the materials over the years making it a little more flexible, but the design remains the same. Unlike "copies" that just put a hole in the fin, Scubapro keeps the fin short but actually INCREASES the surface area by having two fin planes, the end of the first overlapping the beginning of the second (the main) by a few inches. If you look at a U.S.Divers, IDI, IST or any of the copy "rocket" fins, you can see right through the hole. True, this makes it easier to kick, but only because all the water spills through it rather than producing thrust. The Jetfin allows the water to pass through, but keeps it going backward before it flows out. This adds a few inches of surface area to the fin without adding length and forces the water out a smaller opening than it entered (hence the "Jet" moniker). This last point is referred to as the "venturi effect" and is a special case of "Bernoulli's Law" to be discussed later.

The venturi effect was used in designing nozzles for steam engines and later for rockets and uses a converging (narrowing) nozzle to speed up the flow of a gas under pressure. The principle also holds true for fluids as well as gasses. The venturi effect is seen when water is pushed at high speed through a nozzle. It all has to do with the "conservation of energy" principle. As a volume of water (or any fluid) is pushed through a narrowing nozzle, the speed of it MUST increase to allow the same volume of fluid to pass out through the other end. The venturi effect is also the effect we see when a current of water enters a narrow passageway; like the incoming tide under the "Blyman Canal" in Gloucester. The venturi effect is a very "efficient" principle to apply to fin design since it allows extra down-force to be created with little or no increase in drag. Enough of the science lesson for now.

The only negative I have with the Jetfins is the foot pocket design. if you look at it from the end, its almost a rectangle. The top is very flat. If you have high arches or use big thick drysuit boots this puts extra pressure on the top of your foot and can hurt after a while. For me this wasn't much of a problem until I did start using them with a drysuit. They really began to hurt and actually cut off feeling to my feet after a while. To fix it I heated the footpocket with a heat gun, stuck a beer can inside and let them cool to the new "rounded shape". It worked awesome! I told Scubapro about the problem and my fix, but they still haven't done anything about making a slight change to the mold. Whatever! I got mine...

As a second place finisher I go quite often with the Scubapro Splitfin (the Black one... it's a little stiffer than the other colors). I don't see what some people say about not getting enough maneuverability out of them. I think they work fantastic with a frog or modified frog kick. Another plus is that they disturb very little water (and therefore silt) on the up and down strokes when inside a wreck. The water is all sent rearward because of the split. Also, even though I've heard some people say they don't have the power/thrust of a paddle fin, I have three observations 1) you're not usually flying around inside wrecks anyway... you're going slow and purposeful, and 2) I think they give you the same speed (if you need it on the outside of the wreck) as a Scubapro Jetfin, it's just that you don't feel like it because your kick is so much easier. It's like a mental thing... "I COULDN'T be going as fast... it's too easy". Lastly, 3) as Damon mentioned the kick cycle is definitely different. To get more speed out of them, rather than kick harder and wider (as with a paddle type fin), you do MORE and faster kicks, but still no wider than the width of your body and gear.

Think of the difference between an old paddle wheel steamer and a modern propeller. With the old paddle wheel, you notice it moves very slow. There is a huge paddle moving large volumes of water so it's very difficult to make it move faster. To increase speed it takes lots of energy (more steam power) to get the paddle to turn faster. This is like your leg... you "feel" the stress on your thigh muscles of "harder" kicking with a paddle fin. With a modern propeller to increase speed you increase the throttle and the prop spins faster thus increasing the velocity of the water exiting behind the boat. A similar principle applies to the Split fins. Another way of thinking about it is, it's like riding your bicycle in 1st gear rather than 10th gear and trying to cover the same distance. In 10th you're peddling much slower but feeling the resistance much greater than in 1st, where you peddle many more revolutions but feel much less resistance.

The only negative to them is, again, the shape of the foot pocket is rectangular and suffers the same problems as the Jetfins... it hurts the top of my foot. Fortunately I applied the same fix and now they fit like a glove... er... I mean boot! Scubapro never has gotten a foot pocket right... I think everyone over there on their design team must have square feet!

"Warm" Open Water Diving: Mares Avanti Quattro HP Full Foot Pocket - Positives - Hands down the best warm water fin for open water diving is the Mares Avanti Quattro full foot pocket fin. It is relatively long with fairly stiff side rails tapering to a more flexible side rail toward the end of the blade. The Quattro Avanti has 4 very flexible "membranes" that when kicked produces a cupping action to prevent water from "spilling" over the side rails so more water is directed rearward producing great thrust (for every action there is an opposite and equal reaction). It mimics a seals fin quite nicely; and we all know how agile a seal is in the water. It has, I think, the most comfortable full foot pocket on the market which is most important, especially on a full foot fin where you're not wearing boots, but rather are bare foot.

The only negative might be... hell, I can't think of any... I love this fin! I was going to say it can be a little "too much" fin for some people as it moves a lot of water, but this is easily overcome by most any diver with any kind of leg muscles just using a more relaxed, slower, longer kick. In other words, if it feels like your working too hard and your legs are getting tired, slow down and take it easy! You can do that with this fin and still get very decent thrust. Some fins like the old Mares Avanti are just stiff, stiff, stiff and they're always hard to kick whether your kicking hard or trying to relax a little and kick them easy (and in that case you won't go anywhere). If you want a really easy kicking fin get a splitfin!

Cold Open Water Diving: I choose 3... In MY order of preferance 1) Atomic Aquatics Splitfin, 2) Scubapro Splitfin and 3) Mares Quattro Avanti. For me it all depends on what I'm doing (photography vs. scallop diving for example) and how hard I want to work that day. I usually bring them all and decide at the last minute based on conditions and how I feel at the moment, and to be honest I usually end up going MOST OFTEN with the Atomic Aquatics Splitfin... it's a awesome compromise between the Mares Quattro Avanti and the Scubapro Splitfin. Let me say this first; I know not everyone is an owner (or former owner) of a diveshop and can buy all these fins, so if you can buy only one fin for all your Cold Open Water diving, go with the Atomic Aquatics Splitfin, you WON'T be disappointed.

I already described the Scubapro Splitfin in plenty detail above under the wreck diver fins. Well, it also makes a great Open water fin as well, especially if you're doing photography or want a nice relaxing, easy kicking dive, but still want to "move" every now and then. I also described the Mares Avanti Quattro in full foot pocket version for warm water diving. Well the same principles hold for this fin in it's cold water open heel version. Rather than getting a nice easy kick, you definitely "feel" this fin. If you got the leg for it, it cranks... moves lots of water and will get you there in a hurry with a good hard kick!

It is my opinion though that the Atomic Aquatics Splitfin is the best of both worlds. Longer and stiffer than the Scubapro Splitfin, it gives those of us that feel the Scubapro Splitfin is too "floppy" more resistance. This way you "feel" your kicks a little more, which many people like, especially us old timers that are used to stiff fins. You don't feel like you're kicking your brains out and not getting anywhere. On the other hand though, they are MUCH easier kicking than the Mares Quattro Avanti, a nice bonus when you just want to take it a little easier.

I've noticed as I got older I began to use my Quattros less and less, I just wasn't in that much of a rush anymore and quite frankly didn't want to work that hard! At first I went to the Scubapro Splitfin, and loved them... they were great. But as I said I was used to a fin with a little more "feel" to them, and actually, I prefer it that way. Then the Atomic Splitfin came out and I was sold! As I said... an awesome compromise. It gave me an easier kicking motion, relative to the Quattro, the stiffness I was looking for, could be kicked light and easy for a relaxed dive or "pumped up" when I wanted to crank or had to fight currents, AND has an EXTREMELY comfortable (rounded shape like a foot, not rectangular) foot pocket which comes in a TRUE XL for drysuit boots!

The ONLY negative is the ski boot style buckle which is a weak point waiting to break. I've broke a two (now I carry extras). I broke one when I threw my fins up onto the rocks once (I don't do that anymore), and one when my foot got bashed into a rock making an exit at Catherdal in rough seas. I do believe Atomic is coming out with another buckle, and there are other manufacturers buckles that are simpler in design and less likely to break that fit also. I still feel that this slight drawback is minor in comparison to all the benefits the fin offers, and is my choice for an all around Cold Open Water diving fin!

In closing I can't write an article on fins without mentioning MY FAVORITE FIN OF ALL TIME!!! Again from Scubapro, and again they had the same poor foot pocket design (rectangular with a flat top), but if they were still sold today I'd buy a pair in a second and try my "heat them up and remold them fix" I used on the other Scubapro fins. I wish I thought of that fix years ago. The fin is no longer made and most of you new diver probably never heard of them, but some of you older divers may remember the Scubapro SEA WING.

These fins were way ahead of their time. They had no leading edge to disturb water flow over the fin, a design now used on Scubapro's new Razor Fin. They also "hinged" to keep the angle of attack of the blade in the best position, a design feature now used on the Mares Volo fin, but without their hinge/joint arrangement which breaks. The were fairly short and slightly wide and, like the Jetfin, had the two overlapping blades that allowed water to pass through making the kick a little easier while INCREASING blade surface at the same time!

These fins truly worked on Bernoulli's Law. That is ... For horizontal fluid flow, an increase in the velocity of flow will result in a decrease in the static pressure. The equation describing this effect is known as Bernoulli's law. For a complete explanation see http://scienceworld.wolfram.com/physics/BernoulliEffect.html and http://scienceworld.wolfram.com/physics/BernoullisLaw.html . The most practical example of this is in the action of an airfoil. The shape of an airplane wing is such that air flowing over the top of the wing must travel faster than the air flowing under the wing (to cover the same distance and exit at the foil end), and so there is less pressure on the top than on the bottom, resulting in lift. When swimming horizontally in water this lift is manifested as forward motion.

When they first came out many people thought they were ugly ass fins because the blade was rectangular which was a huge departure from the norm, and people just couldn't get over that. But now-a-days there are find of all shapes and man... just thinking about them makes me wish they'd come out with them again... but with a better foot pocket of course. You can still find a pair or two on Ebay every now and then, but that's about it. As a matter of fact I just bid on the only two XL's I found listed on Ebay, and if I get them, I'm gonna try to remold the footpocket. I can't wait to try them out ... again!

Well that's it! I had fun reminiscing about my favorite fins and hope I was of some help to those of you looking to purchase a new pair. Peace Out & See you underwater!

Capt. Jim

"One Love, One Destiny. One Earth, One Chance! Symbiosis"

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"Thank You Everyone"

Thank you to all who made the Aqua Shack so much fun for me!

Capt. Jim Hinckley

Aqua Shack owner/instructor/philosopher/"Third Power" Soldier ponders his years "in the business".

Where I came from...

My fascination with the ocean and its inhabitants began as a child snorkeling the coast and lakes of the Northeast on camping trips with my family. Cape Cod & Cape Ann Massachusetts, New Hampshire, the coast of Maine and lakes such as Sebago and Moosehead, and even the Finger lakes region of New York were my training grounds for a later career in diving. I began full-fledged SCUBA diving in college at UMass Amherst back in May 1973. Since then I have logged well over 5,000 dives (loving every one) and have trained over 4000 divers to various levels and certification. That's a lot of time underwater! Since 1988 when I took my hobby and made it my vocation, Symbiosis Dive Service has grown to include Symbiosis SCUBA Academy (SSA our Training & Education Division formed in 1988), Symbiosis Dive Charters (local charters & trips abroad formed in 1990), and the AQUA SHACK (our retail store in Marlboro, MA formed in 1997). I still love diving and always will. It's my way of escaping the everyday pressures of life. For that hour or so underwater I don't think of anything else... I hate to admit it but sometimes I don't even  think about the dive itself! I'm just totally enveloped in the sea, a part of the cycle of life here on earth, and enjoying every minute of it.

As time went on after I started the Aqua Shack I found myself more and more tied up in the everyday affairs of "running the business" and able to dive less and less. Most of my dives were "class / training dives" with students. This caused three changes to slowly come about. One, my dives were not "mine" to wander about aimlessly and thoughtlessly like I wanted to for my sanity... I was "responsible" for the very lives of my charges! Not that they weren't fun, it's just that they were work dives and goal oriented... not conducive to being able to relax. Second, since many of my weekends were taken up with class dives and charters, I simply had that many less free weekends to do what I wanted... diving and otherwise. Thirdly, I was so tired of working dives that when I did get a weekend day free, I didn't want to dive! This is when I started thinking something has got to change...I love diving too much to not go!

Then came the family...

To most of you who dive (especially deep, wreck & tech) and have kids this may sound familiar to you. To those of you who haven't been fortunate enough to have kids yet, well you may not understand. I thought I understood what children do to you... but in retrospect I had no idea. I'm not talking about just the time involved, that I figured for. I'm talking about the whole change in attitude, thinking, emotions and way of life. It can't be explained to someone without children because the emotions are so strong and all encompassing that the words to describe the feelings simply don't exist! All the things I thought were SO important all of a sudden meant SO little compared to what is REALLY important in life.

I used to define myself by what I was and did... I'm a Master SCUBA Instructor, I'm a USCG licensed charter boat Captain, I'm a Dive Center owner, etc...  Now all of a sudden I'm a Daddy, and I'll tell you, NOTHING makes me prouder or happier or more fulfilled than that title. Life has come full circle... now I know why we're here... now I know my purpose in life. Karina was born in July, then 6 weeks later we had the infamous 9/11 tragedy. This really effected me. I wondered and thought about life, death and life after death! I don't know about you or whether you believe in (physical) life after death or not, but I know one thing... you DO live after death through your children and/or what you've created and done with your life.

Where I am...

I have done my share of the deep stuff, both as a foolish 20 something year old who ignored the risks and was lucky enough to live (I won't have any problems... that stuff only happens to other people), and as a properly trained and experienced middle-aged adventurer who invested in the gear and training necessary to minimize the risks and maximize the enjoyment. However, even with the proper gear, training and experience there were two things that kept bugging me... the hours of in-water decompression required for a 150' - 250' dive, and the UNDENIABLE increase in RISK (something many people fail to think about). The more I learned about the realities DEEP diving the less glamour it held for me... it just became another set of skills required to achieve a goal like see a wreck or cruise a coral wall at 200 plus feet.

After decades of heading to the bottom I began to find myself fascinated with things closer to the surface. This came about for two reasons. First was my renewed interest in photography with the advent of digital cameras. The photo ops were simply better nearer to the surface where there was more light, color and marine life. Also shallow dives allowed me to concentrate more fully on photography without worrying so much about air consumption, narcosis, decompression illness, oxygen toxicity, lengthy deco stops, and the dive shop worth of gear I had to carry on my back in addition to the photography equipment. I have photos and video of many of my dives on wrecks and reefs over 200' and I'll tell you they were MUCH harder to get! Second of course was the kids... now I had a reason to live. Not that I didn't before, it's just that now the reason is so clearly in focus,  it isn't just about me any more... there are two little Hinckley's (not to mention my wife) that count on me being around for at least a few more years! After having several friends and acquaintances die doing deep tech dives, caves and wrecks (one on my very boat) I made it my mission to try to convince the divers I certify and the customers I serve of the enormous increase in risk and to question whether or not the objective of the dive is worth DIEING for. Before EVERY deep tech dive you should ask yourself "Is what I'm about to do WORTH DIEING FOR?" As I began asking myself this question, I found myself doing less and less deep tech & wreck diving; and I have done none since the birth of my daughter.

Where I'm going...

Thinking back to my first SCUBA dive some 30+ years ago at Hermit Island Maine with my buddy Ralph, I realize that it wasn't about the depth, it was about the environment - the ability to exist in a weightless three dimensional world, interacting with and becoming a part of the environment that was off-limits to my fellow air breathing mammals. Oh what a simple and enjoyable time that was! Ralph and I had more fun and forged enough memories in those shallow coves to last a lifetime. This revelation and having children has added a renewed validation to shallow water diving I might have discounted a few years ago. I truly do enjoy getting back to the reasons I began diving in the first place. It seems to hit me more and more every time I dive in the Caribbean... or do a nice relaxing dive here in New England. I  jump in with basically just a mask, snorkel, fins, SCUBA unit and wetsuit, and as I float effortlessly over the reef, it hits me... "Aaaahhh, THIS is why I took up diving!". I don't get that feeling wearing 200 pounds of gear, carrying 4 tanks, constantly having to remain totally focused and worrying about what could happen Even if I DO do everything right!  (it can still happen!)

Staying shallow allows me to use just one tank, stay down longer without worrying about decompression or equipment failure, get more light for my photos and remain warmer. Not all my future dives will be shallow and within "Recreational" limits; there will be more jumps down into the blue depths. But from now on, the shallow stuff will always be more than a place to hang out during decompression. I have my children to thank for my renewed interest in shallower diving, and I can't wait until I can take them down to look around. I have a feeling that NO deep dive could match the rush I'm going to get when Karina and Zack look around for the first time, eyes bugging out in amazement, and pop their head above the surface to ask me what it is they're looking at! It'll be like re-living that first dive of mine some 30 years ago and everything will be NEW all over again... ONLY BETTER!

What about the Aqua Shack???

I am so pleased (thrilled) to have sold the Aqua Shack to Marcus Hannay and family. I certified him and his family several years ago and I knew then that I liked him. Since he's been working for the Aqua Shack he has come a long way and I feel like he is part of my family. Even my mother (better known to all simply as "Ma") said it's nice that I was able to keep the store in the "family". I don't feel like I've sold the store, it feels more like I've "passed the torch" for him to carry on the fine tradition we've started. I will still be teaching, diving and probably even run an occasional charter now and then, but the retail end of the business was just taking too much time from my family.

Every parent I met kept telling me "Enjoy these young years with your kids, they are so much fun and they pass so quickly. Also, they are the most important for forging lifelong family bonds". I decided they were right. I kept putting family time off because I had this or that to do for work. I love diving & teaching, but the retail end of the business was not fun and it was taking too much time, so I decided I wanted to get out. However I didn't want to just close the Aqua Shack and sell off the gear, compressor, tools, books, etc. I put too much time, money and effort into it to just close it down. The Aqua Shack has a good following of loyal customers and a good reputation in the business, and I didn't want to just walk out on all of them. (Also I still wanted a dive center I could trust to go to for my air fills, service work and social dive adventures.) Fortunately, when I asked Marcus, who has been with me for three years, if he was interested in buying the Aqua Shack, he was very receptive. With the help of Lori & Gene (his Mom & Dad) he took over as the new Owner on April 1, 2003.

In closing I just wanted to give a big THANKS to all who have patronized the Aqua Shack over the years and made us so successful. I hope you all continue to help and support Marcus in his new business endeavor. I know he is excited about the opportunity and will serve all of you with renewed vigor and to the best of his ability. I will still be around if he or any of you need me. I still own & will maintain "Symbiosis Dive Service" (the training & education, charter & travel end of the business) as I have since 1988. I can still be e-mailed at captjim@aquacorps.com if anyone wishes to reach me for any reason. Once again Thank You All Very Much for your support and understanding. See you diving ...... and be safe!

Captain Jim Hinckley 


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I thought this was a nice thought. I wanted to pass it on to all of you.....

Maybe our lives are too busy!

I saw Lisa Beamer on Good Morning America. If you remember, she's the wife of Todd Beamer who said "Let's Roll!" before he helped take down the hijacked plane that was heading for Washington D. C. on September 11, 2001. She said it's the little things that she misses most about Todd - such as hearing the garage door open as he came home, and her children running to meet him.

She told a story from her school days...

"I had a very special teacher in high school many years ago whose husband died suddenly of a heart attack. About a week after his death, she shared some of her insight with her students. As the late afternoon sunlight came streaming in through the classroom windows and the class was nearly over, she moved a few things aside on the edge of her desk and sat down there. With a gentle look of reflection on her face, she paused and said, 'Class is over... Now I would like to share with all of you, a thought that is unrelated to class, but which I feel is very important. Each of us is put here on earth to learn, share, love, appreciate others and give of ourselves. None of us knows when this fantastic experience called life will end. It can be taken away at any moment. Perhaps this is the powers way of telling us that we must make the most out of every single day."

Her eyes, beginning to water, she went on, "So I would like you all to make me a promise. From now on, on your way to school, or on your way home, find something beautiful to notice. It doesn't have to be something you see, it could be a scent - perhaps of freshly baked bread wafting out of someone's house, or it could be the sound of the breeze slightly rustling the leaves in the trees, or the way the morning light
catches one autumn leaf as it falls gently to the ground. Please look for these things, and cherish them. For, although it may sound trite to some, these things are the "stuff" of life. The little things we are put here on earth to enjoy. The things we often take for granted. We must make it important to notice them, for at anytime.. it can all be taken away. "

The class was completely quiet. We all picked up our books and filed out of the room silently. That afternoon, I noticed more things on my way home from school than I had that whole semester.

Every once in a while, I think of that teacher and remember what an impression she made on all of us, and I try to appreciate all of those things that sometimes we all overlook."

So take notice of something special you see on your lunch hour today. Go barefoot.  Walk on the beach at sunset. Stop off on the way home tonight to get a double dip ice cream cone. Skip work tomorrow and have fun with the kids!

I have seen people die and almost without exception, their only regrets are usually that they didn't have enough time to spend with loved ones. I've Never Yet heard anyone on their death beds say "I wish I worked more hours". Seems as we get older, it is not the things we did that we often regret, but the things we didn't do. So go do them! 

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away... Jah Bless!


Dance Like No One’s Watching 

We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, then another. Then we are frustrated that the kids aren't old enough and we'll be more content when they are. After that we're frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. We will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage. We tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer car, are able to go on a nice vacation, when we retire.

 The truth is, there's no better time to be happy than right now. If not now, when? Your life will always be filled with challenges. It's best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway.

 One of my favorite quotes comes from Alfred D Souza. He said, "For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin - real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life.

 This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So, treasure the precious time that you have. Treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to have spent your time with... and remember that time waits for no one!

 So stop waiting until you finish school, until you go back to school, until you lose ten pounds, until you gain ten pounds, until you have kids, until your kids leave the house, until you start work, until you retire, until you get married, until you get divorced, until Friday night, until Sunday morning, until you get a new car or home, until your car or home is paid off, until spring, until summer, until fall, until winter, until you are off welfare, until the first or fifteenth, until your song comes on, until you've had a drink, until you've sobered up, until you die, until you are born again to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy... 

 Happiness is a journey, not a destination.

  

Thought for the day:

 

Work like you don't need money,

Love like you've never been hurt,

And dance like no one's watching.


Njė Dashuri, Njė Fat.

Njė Tokė, Njė Rast.

Jetoj bashkė nė mirėkuptim

 

That's Albanian for:

 

One Love, One Destiny.

One Earth, One Chance!

Symbiosis (live together in understanding)

 

(live together in understanding is the closest Albanian translation I could find for Symbiosis)

 

Capt. Jim Hinckley


One Love, One Destiny.
One Earth, One Chance!
Symbiosis… 

Capt.  Jim